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The word "对不起" (duìbuqǐ), meaning "sorry", is formed through a vivid conceptual metaphor rooted in physical and social posture. It literally combines "对" (facing/toward), "不" (not), and "起" (to rise/stand up), creating the implied image of "not being able to stand face-to-face" with someone. This conveys the sense of being in the wrong, where one's fault or shame creates a barrier preventing an upright, direct encounter, thus necessitating an apology to lower oneself and restore balance. It is an idiom where the sum of its parts paints a picture of relational disharmony and the need for humility.

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对不起,我迟到了。

Duìbuqǐ, wǒ chídàole.

I'm sorry I'm late.

对不起,我忘记了你的生日。

Duìbuqǐ, wǒ wàngjìle nǐ de shēngrì.

I'm sorry I forgot your birthday。

对于我的错误,我真心地说对不起

Duìyú wǒ de cuòwù, wǒ zhēnxīn de shuō duìbuqǐ。

For my mistake, I sincerely say I'm sorry。

让你这么担心,我感到非常对不起你。

Ràng nǐ zhème dānxīn, wǒ gǎndào fēicháng duìbuqǐ nǐ。

I feel terribly sorry for making you worry so much。

即使现在说对不起,也无法弥补我造成的伤害。

Jíshǐ xiànzài shuō duìbuqǐ, yě wúfǎ míbǔ wǒ zàochéng de shānghài。

Even if I say sorry now, it cannot make up for the harm I caused.

Word Definition - 对不起

duì bu qǐ I'm sorry; excuse me; I beg your pardon; to let (sb) down; to disappoint

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