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棒打鸳鸯 is formed by combining the characters 棒 (stick), 打 (to hit), and 鸳鸯 (mandarin ducks, a symbol for a devoted couple); the literal depiction of hitting mandarin ducks with a stick serves as a metaphor for the forceful separation of a romantic pair, which constitutes the word's meaning.

Word Definition - 棒打鸳鸯

bàng dǎ yuān yāng (idiom) to cruelly separate lovers (esp. by family or societal pressure); to forcibly break up a couple against their will